Need help with my 9 month olds schedule?

so my daughter is 9 months old. She has always been a great baby, slept through the night early etc. she used to always fall asleep in her bouncer or swing on her own etc. Last month we moved to a new home, and ever since it all changed. I personally think she was unfamiliar with the place,maybe scared? any way, i literally have to hold her to take a nap, each and every time. at night i put her in her crib, i alwaus have to get up a few times when she loses her pacifier or something or kicks her blankie away etc. but the last few nights she cries wide up until i pick her up, and i do so she dont wake my 3 1/2 year old up. now the last few nights from being so tired and holding her to go back to sleep i lay her next to me in my bed and of course both p out until morning. my 3 1/.2 year old slept with me until 2 years old and i dont wasnt to repeat this ever lol. what can i do now, i know she is at the age where she understands a little. i currently am feeding her dinner a little later with her last bottle so shes not up at 530 ( she always slept until past 7 before the move) that part is helping a little. shes also very attached to me as i am home all day with her. my husband works nights so its just me and the kids here and i need advice quickly. I also need activites my kids can do together, as they love eachother but get bored with one another quickly. help!